Bride and groom smile at each other in front of the sunlit ruined stone walls of Battle Abbey, his orange buttonhole bright

A Relaxed Summer Wedding at Battle Abbey | John & Alice

Alice got ready at her parents’ house in Hastings, which meant the drive to Battle took about twenty minutes and nobody spent the morning stressed about traffic. That set the tone for the entire day. There was no running order anyone was strictly following, no shot list, nobody being moved anywhere they didn’t want to go.

I’m Dale, a documentary wedding photographer based in St Leonards, about eight miles from Battle Abbey. I don’t spend an hour of your day arranging people. No stiff poses, no working through the same twelve setups every photographer takes at every venue.

Getting ready in Hastings

Alice got ready at her parents’ house with one bridesmaid, Lauren Louise doing hair and makeup, and a steady rotation of family members putting their heads round the door to check on progress and then leaving again. Her brother, various others. Her dad answered the door to La Collina Gardens and carried the flowers in himself, which is the kind of small job that somehow always falls to a father of the bride on a wedding morning.

It was calm in a way that mornings often aren’t. One bridesmaid instead of six, a house everyone already knew their way around, and nobody watching the clock because Battle was twenty minutes away. I left early for the venue to catch the room filling up.

Alice smiling softly at her own reflection in a round mirror while getting ready at her parents' house in Hastings

The ceremony

Everyone gathered in the big hall, under the enormous painting that dominates the room. Two of Alice and John’s family played the music — flute and piano, live, in a room built to carry sound. There’s a particular quality to a ceremony where the music is being played by people who are also guests. Everyone in the room knows exactly what it costs them to hold it together.

Empty chairs with ribbons and foliage set for the ceremony beneath a huge painting in the hall at Battle Abbey

Drinks, lawn games, and a football match

Outside afterwards for drinks in the sun, and the wooden games their friends had made by hand. Not hired, not bought – made. That’s the sort of thing I’ll always photograph whether or not anyone’s asked me to, along with the signs on the tables Alice had put together.

By early evening a proper football match had broken out on the school pitch, most of the kids and a decent number of the dads, jackets off, entirely committed. And behind all of it, the sun going down over the battlefield. There aren’t many venues where the view is a thousand years of history and the foreground is somebody’s uncle going in hard on a nine-year-old.

Guests chatting with drinks on the gravel terrace in the evening sun, stone towers rising behind at Battle Abbey

The abbey and cloisters

We slipped round the back of the school for group shots and a few of the two of them, in and around the abbey ruins and the cloisters. It took about twenty minutes total. Old stone, soft light, and no standing around.

Bride in a beaded halterneck gown and groom in a navy three-piece suit share a kiss among the abbey ruins at Battle

Thinking about Battle Abbey?

Battle Abbey suits couples who want their wedding to feel like a good party in an extraordinary building rather than a performance staged inside one. If that sounds like your day, have a look through my Battle Abbey wedding photography guide for more on the venue.

Bride in a white halterneck dress and orange shoes laughs, holding hands with her groom in front of Battle Abbey's ruins

Alice & John

“Such a chilled presence and it shows in the photos with everyone looking so natural!“

“We’ve only just had a chance to go through -WOW, these are amazing! Thank you so much, you’ve captured the day so well. Thanks for even getting details like the signs on the table, I wouldn’t have thought of that but it’s so nice to have a record of it. You were such a chilled presence and I think it shows in the photos as everyone is looking really natural, which is exactly what we hoped for.”

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